upgrade some of the dependencies (#11467)

* bump parity-util-mem and related deps

* upgrade some of the dependencies

* deduplicate static_assertions

ethcore/trace/src/lib.rs

@@ -19,8 +19,6 @@
 use ethereum_types::{U256, Address};
 use kvdb::DBTransaction;
 use vm::{Error as VmError, ActionParams};
-// The MallocSizeOf derive looks for this in the root
-use parity_util_mem as malloc_size_of;
 
 mod config;
 mod db;